Why Forgiveness is Crucial to Your Happiness

Your ability to forgive those who have hurt you in the past, is a crucial springboard for your spiritual and emotional growth. The whole course of our lives, we collect emotional baggage. This is unavoidable, and although it may give us a great pain, it helps us define who we are as people, the result is that we grow even more and learn valuable lessons along the way about ourselves and others.

So there you have it - emotional baggage is an unavoidable part of our whole life - but it is not actually what is the real cause of dissatisfaction in your life. What is really important is how you choose to deal with that baggage, because what you do here will determine the success or failure of your future relationship .. Now there is another very important point we want to do:

People come into our lives to teach us lessons

This is what you do with these experiences that determines how your future will be. Think of all the people you encountered in your life. Is not it funny to look back and think about the last time you saw a particular person, it may have been several years ago and it is very possible that you will never see him / her in this life! The reason? Because this person has served their purpose in your life. So now that you know, think about this, what did this person teach you? Some relationships or meetings we have with other people only take a few days and some last a lifetime. But either way, each experience serves a specific purpose and is highly relevant to your life!.

Now that all the experiences we have is a lesson for us, they think people who have hurt you in the past. Have you allowed yourself to forgive them? Or are you still out in emotional pain? Will you find yourself conjuring up scenes of "sweet revenge" in your mind, or worse still, acting out these scenes? Are you able to forgive and let go? If you're not, so there is power - you or them?

Do not let people who have hurt you in the past have any control over your future!

When you make a choice to forgive others, are not you lie down and be a doormat, or you admit that the person who hurts you in the right. Forgiveness is about taking back control over your life and not let your negative emotions to rule you. And forgiveness is also about letting go of all those debilitating emotions that could be responsible for sabotaging your current situation! So ask yourself this question: Would you feel good? If you are still carrying feelings of resentment and anger towards someone who hurt you so what are you out?

Hanging on the feelings of anger, hatred or anger, will ensure that these destructive feelings will spill over into your current life and stop you from enjoying a positive, successful relationships with others.

The fact is, your subconscious mind never ignores negative energy and emotions. It will remind you every day that you should treat them, and until you do, it will manifest your unresolved emotional pain through insomnia, chronic physical pain and in extreme cases, by life-threatening illness. So there it is, take a decision today to take back your life by practicing forgiveness. Your energy is extremely expensive, so do not allow yourself to give it away to those who do not deserve to get it it! Get on with your life today and you will see miracles.