Debbie, a smart, modern unmarried woman of 32 years, a manager in a multinational company. These days, economically independent women claim that women in all areas, and most of them believe in with male friends. Debbie also has three good male friends who work in other companies. They are close to each other and often meet separately or in clubs, hotels, and in its place.
Debbie knows how to keep a good relationship with friends. She concludes that good friends are a blessing and a great help in many ways. But they did not benefit from them and treat them as friends and nothing else. She believes that if she marries a person who is definitely not one of those friends, they will be happy to be friends with them to continue. She feels that her future husband will be glad to be friendly with his friends because they are all really nice people.
Sarah, a newlywed woman, 29 years old was a childhood friend David in the same age that lived near his childhood home. They played together, fought many times and shared their joys and sorrows few childhood, youth and young until they were married. There was never talk of love, both happy together. After marriage, moved Sarah to another city.
She is an intelligent and sober woman, who deliberately avoided communication with David preventing their friendship is otherwise acquired by her husband that their marriage.
FRIENDS - greatest assets
All individual needs and friends are no exception. With really good friends that you feel deep solidarity, solidarity, sharing of feelings and unconditional support. A true friend is one of the largest life assets. A good friend helps in times of need, tell us our shortcomings and mistakes and try to stop us once we are on the wrong path.
Friends are people you help in difficult times and are not satisfied until you are satisfied. You must be very selective in developing a friendship and a person of an amiable character who has no interest in being found. A woman can make a few friends of the same sex and a few male friends in her student and later as she was unmarried, but male friends married life is something that challenges and complications marriage creates.
Men are always keen to make friends with women they find women more than men for a close emotional relationship. Most men keep their deepest hope to develop subtle intimacy with her. In the so-called modern city women and like to have male friends, both fit together as friends.
The so-called modern women are convinced that their male friends cannot deceive. But in real life, they often give way to encourage their male friends or they themselves take the initiative to their carnal desires because of their biological urges to come.
The ancient saints had advised a long time ago that a male and a female does not come closer or sit in the same bed, even if they are close relatives. Misunderstood women today in their ruthlessness enjoy the freedom to develop clandestine relationships, although they are the ones who suffer in the long term.
Kristy, a woman 32 years old and an advocate for women's lib, a few male friends were before marriage. She has always believed that if men have their friends, why can not women male friends? Kristy always felt more comfortable with his male friends than her friends. After marriage when her husband visited his friend Tony the first time Kristy introduced him to her husband Tim as her best friend. Tim met him with warmth and dittoed Kristy invitation for him to eat at their place. The next day Tim called Garima from his office to inform her about his promotion, announced that day. The girl who attended the phone told him that she had gone to the house of Mrs. Walker. He called Walker's house to talk to his wife, but she was not there.
This aroused suspicion in Tim's minds. During the next visit of Tony, his suspicions turned to reality when he put them in a compromising position in his own house, which insists Kristy, Tony remained in their room. Tim was so angry that he killed them both with his pistol and licensed informed the police who arrested him for murder.
Angela, 34 years old and mother of two beautiful daughters, was not happy with her husband Roger. He was so busy in his business pursuits, he has been able to focus and give time for his family. Angela turned friend of her husband Scott, a local young man of 30 years, who sympathized with her and soon they developed an affair. After having found that his wife has strayed Roger spoke with her and decided to go, both for divorce by mutual. Angela Scott refurbished in a rented house on the promise of an early marriage, but Angela fell after one year with another girl arranged by their parents marry. Angela now lives a solitary life after getting seriously hurt and feels betrayed, used and abandoned. Her family was devastated by unscrupulous male friend and her own passion. She has now miss her daughter, her good nature, man and former comfortable life.
Look before you leap
Friends must be credible and you must explicitly trust to have friends. But even then there is a warning. Do not trust anyone too many, and blind, although he is your best friend. People are betrayed usually refers to money, property and women of those who are most familiar with. Friendship is a pleasant, warm and positive feeling. A person with friends richer spiritually and emotionally, and it is generally more balanced person than a loner.
The dangers of having male friends for married women:
* This can lead to chaos in the family and lead to separation and divorce.
* It can ruin your reputation and your family and neighbors on only suspicion, even if the relationship is not sexual indiscretion.
* The woman may lose her life and honor killings are not uncommon.
* When passion and madness take over good feeling for the woman, she can link the crime of killing her husband in collusion with her lover and then rot in jail.
* The children suffer long-term, and the woman cannot get custody of her children and thereby deprived. Some women do not want the burden of the children have gone to the people they want to keep the birds free without charges.
Unmarried men and married women as friends:
Equality of women part-time in all respects to continue their old male friends and do not mind making new male friends even after marriage. However, these options are risky. Although women can be sure the good friendly relations, but who knows the male friend to her desires, and can see his true colors sooner or later. Now the question is will her husband cheating, and if it is exposed, she is ready for the restlessness and anger of her husband, who never want something like this happens to handle? Men are very sensitive and honor killings are not uncommon. It should be known a few women who have extramarital affairs were slain by husbands or their killers.
Some women are so blind to their passion, they have their husbands killed conniving their loved ones. Not only that, a few women in the past has killed their children who have seen their mother in a compromising position with another man. Cases of adult sons kill their unfaithful mother since. In such cases the whole family is gone, the killers languishing in prison or punished with a death sentence. Sometimes women have run away with their friends, even if they are mothers of three or four children and were in the 30s and 40s.
Married men and married women as friends:
These questions are the worst, not one but two family suffers when the married man is unfaithful to his wife, and none was more concerned with his family. Mon makes false promises to marry her when his divorce from his wife, but most times it does not happen. The married woman who falls for a married man, living mostly as a concubine because most men want to continue with such issues on the part of censor his family and society to avoid. In the long run, suffer any woman in many ways for her violation. Married to husband and other family members can create problems for her and even try to remove hair. Not a lawful wife, she or her children from this relationship has any legal or human right.
Male friends spouse:
The man male friends can be with her friends and they can start treating them as her friends who are always ready to run errands for her. They try to please her by their sweet words of praise for her appearance, clothes, house, her talents, cooking, and decorating always someone with her. Some unscrupulous men please their girlfriend, who also comes closer to him in her weaker moments, consciously or unconsciously, to seduce, with the risk that such a relationship does not remain hidden for long.
The necessary precautions to incredible compared to male friends to avoid:
* It is best to have any male friends, especially after marriage.
* If you still have a friendship with a man after marriage, and this is represented by your husband to terminate the friendship.
* Do not be foolhardy to insist that you do not get your friends, because this incident to bring your family and may lead to unpleasant consequences.
* Do not make friends with male friends of the man and not make too many liberties with you. Keep your distance.
* Have a check on your biological urges to cause trouble in your life with unlimited misery by affecting your reputation, respect and joy.
* Do not be misled by false praise and false promises. Do not like men at their nominal value, which most men eventually develop lustful feelings toward a woman.
* Women can judge people's intentions very well, so why should victims of their desires and repent later?
* Friendship with men is not a very desirable option. Women who have their husbands to treat their best friend and only male lead a very happy life.
The position of married women are different. Session male friends after marriage and moving with them are rarely bothered by men. They dislike the appreciation of the wife of friend will tell you if he shows her. This is simply jealousy or suspicion of loyalty and allegiance woman. This can cause problems and can lead to a breakdown in marriage. It must also understand the connection between a woman and a man who a friend is always full of danger, because the opportunities to develop intimacy is always great. Chairs more about your husband, whose good friends were friends of his family also. Get good friends of the company and emotional support.
Women never like their men to have female friends. Although there is anything near a woman arouses suspicion in the minds of the woman, and she raised a hue and cry about being. Neither she nor her friends would be closer to her husband or her husband trying to unlock more of them that he was not intimate with one of them to develop. Most sensible women vigilant about their girlfriends, otherwise one of them trying to steal her husband.
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