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06 June 2010

What Attracts Women

It has been a well accepted fact that men are basically clueless to whatever it is that attracts women. In fact some reports claim that women are so hard to understand that even if men master how to decode their body language, still they just could not understand women, in one way or another.

According to some surveys, three out of ten men can prove that they really understand women.

The remaining seven, you ask? They are out in the haystack find needles. This means that almost 70% of men population in the United States contends that whatever they do, they still could not figure out how to understand women.

For this reason, men have difficulty finding out what attract women sexually and romantically in a relationship. Six out of ten men attest that women are so unpredictable that what they think women are attracted to, they suddenly discover in the end, it is not the right thing anyway.

So for those still confused, dazed and confused about what attracts women, here's a list that can serve as your guide if you want to know how to catch your girl's attention:

1. Women are not attracted to "nice guys"

There are examples in which some guys thought that to attract women, they must be good to see, smell really good, dress really well and projects a goody-two-shoes image.

What these guys do not know is that in reality women are more attracted by men who project "bad-boy" image rather than those who are nice. This is because most women find nice guys relatively boring and uninteresting compared to those who are fun and confidence in themselves.

Studies show that 30% of women value personality most. But this does not necessarily mean that women prefer nice personalities. What women would rather have is men who have lovable personalities because of their sense of humor and confidence.

The point is that some clinical studies conducted to uncover the truth about men and women showed that men are generally more concerned with their appearance, while women are more in character and the way men behave around women.

2. Women are attracted to things that can not be initially seen by the human eye

This shows that innate thing, those who are not constrained by physical boundaries and limitations, what really attracts women. Women are more concerned with what they can not see literally. This could refer to personality traits, behavior and attitude.

No wonder why most women would rather date a man who has good personality, though the guy is not good looking or he does not have a car.

3. Women are more attracted to men who know how to handle himself quite well

The problem with most men is that they are very selfish, they are more focused on what the public will see them.

On the contrary, women are not so much on what makes a man, but rather on how man makes out of himself. For example, women are not affected by the physical properties of one man, but more about how the man takes care of his body.

Another example, if a particular man is rich and famous, it can keep some possible attraction between a man and a woman. This will not guarantee that women choose to have the rich and famous for a relationship. If the woman will be able to understand how this man manages its finances well, since it is the only time the woman will bear in mind the guy.

The point here is that material things like wealth, looks, physical attributes, education, influence, power, etc., remain the case. But they did not necessarily mean that these things are everything a man needs to be attractive to women.

The truth is that to attract women, men generally have nice attitude and personality. It is only when men make women feel that when women are with them, they would feel safe and secure.

Since everything that women and men view the concept of attraction varies considerably. This shows that if ever a man would like to attract a particular woman, he must set aside his own view and interest, and instead try to work to catch the attention of the woman.

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