It is obviously not true at all. The definitions of beauty, attraction and sexual constantly change to serve the social order, and the connection between the three ideas is a recent invention.
Some psychologists argue that the disparity between the concepts of beauty, attractions, and sexuality is based on the premise that both sexes are prone to physical or sexual attraction, because women are able to view men just as men view women as subjects of sexual and aesthetic evaluation.
In a survey conducted by an "evolutionary psychologist," from 10,000 people who were interviewed, it was found that men have a high-standards of physical attraction in their budding sexual chief mates, while women's emphasis on weight, dimensions and monetary sources.
No wonder why most cases of attraction are all based on sexuality and physical attributes. This is because men and women would rather have their significant other physically and sexually capable of giving them their necessities.
For example, the men attracted to women who look good because it shows excellent strength and capacity to produce offspring babies. On the other hand, women are attracted to men who look good because it indicates the abundance of financial resources, ability to provide the basic necessities for their children is generated.
The point here is that both men and women can have their own basis for attraction, but everything is generally focused on the physical and material aspects. This is because the attraction is connected with the fact that the physical attributes motivate that part of the brain known as the "hypothalamus" to produce different kinds of reactions from the body, such as sexual arousal, increased heart rate, and sweat.
So the question now is: How can the individual identify clear signs of attraction?
There are many probable actions that may suggest attraction. But the real signs include but not limited to the following:
1. Visual contact
It is when both a man and a woman staring at each other and immediately extended moment as they look at each other longer than the typical look.
Both are completely immersed in each other's anecdote, and every word will impress them both. All eyes are glued to each other that send a message that they are attracted to each other.
2. Preen
Preening means to adorn themselves carefully or groom with special attention to detail. Therefore, attraction sets in when both would try to immediately do a quick solution and conquer each other's space.
3. Flirting
Teasing could have been more appropriate word for it. It is when both sexes converse in a relaxed manner, with bodily actions associated with their thoughts and feelings, which most often than not, sexual excitement and arousal are the primary Upshot.
4. Physical contact
It is when a woman is inclined to departments and the man puts a modest hand on his hand or arm. In this way, the woman tries to tell the other person that she is attracted to him and that she is open to possibilities involving the person.
All these things are boiled down to the fact that the asymmetry of the correlation among beauty, attraction, and sexuality that tells both men and women is how they both perceive each other's physical attributes. This is inevitable because of missing it completely will keep them sexually estranged.
Attraction is generally focused on imagery, only on the physical attributes of both men and women, where society has created a very important role. This shows that the signs of attraction indicate the clear identification of desirability.
Given all that, both men and women should make the choice largely to take each other as people first and not just mere sex objects.
It should also be noted that these signs of attraction may be well confined on the premise that both men and women send out these signs as a ticket to conquer each other's space, so to start "getting-to-know-each-other" stage.
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