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19 April 2010

How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you stood and chatted with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds and then you looked away. When you back up, he was talking with some other people. Did he see you as you mixed? Or did you do it? How can you tell whether a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?

Here are five signs that he is interested in you. Where any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

1. He tells someone

Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He tries to act as he is "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will come back to you. He hopes it does.

2. The look

He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "seeing" he says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes stuck in your. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

3. Conversation

Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you to ask questions, he is interested. He seems to listen and respond to what you say. He moves into the ultimate question which is: "Do you get any." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he can not tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you have taken. If he does not ask you the question of whether you are attached, he can ask someone you both know.

4. He appears unexpectedly

He likes you much if he appears out of nowhere. He can only do if he has asked people about your schedule, or he has been mindful of where you are going and when. His face may be red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying: "I do not wish to seem obvious, but I am interested in you". If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. Everyone likes you

Is he interested? When you are well-liked and a happy person, why should he not like you? Obviously he does. If you do not have a great life, but now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career, body image, future plans and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it will not matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents disappear. School and training do not.

These are the five signs that he is interested, and he is about to ask you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.

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