If you suspect your boyfriend is cheating on you? There are some signs of a cheating girlfriend you can keep looking. Even if the signs are there, it does not mean cheating actually happens. Nonetheless, here are some things to watch out for if you suspect your girlfriend is unfaithful. If you catch it early enough, you may be able to address it and deal with it early so it does not permanently damage or destroy your relationship. Here are some signs of a cheating boyfriend:
• Earlier your girlfriend talked to you about everything. Now she barely says two words to you and has not for a while.
Has it been a while since your girlfriend and you have sat down for a heart to heart or just spent the evening watching TV together and have easy conversation throughout? If the tables have suddenly changed so that a new job or other obligations is to take this time away from each of you, it is one thing. But if that happened, and it used to be that you were talking about everything together and now she never says two words to you, beware. She could get her needs met elsewhere.
• She dresses beautifully - but not for you.
If your girlfriend slums around the house in old sweats and a T-shirt when you two are together but she is always dressed to the nines when she goes out, this could be something to worry about.
• She has lots of conversations on the phone that she abruptly ends when you enter the room - or she is on the computer very quickly and shuts it down much of the time if there is a chance you can see the screen.
It could be that she simply planning a surprise party for you, or that some other innocent business started, true, but if this has been going on for a while, it may well be that she thinks about having an affair, or actually having one.
• She spends an awful lot of time away from home or "working" after hours.
If the two of you always used to spend weekends or a lot of your time together and that suddenly does not happen anymore, take note. It could be that she simply spends some time with friends, true, but it could also be that she is thinking about or actually cheating on you.
• Little intimacies are missing from the relationship.
Even if the two of you still love on a regular basis, look for other tracks, your relationship may be exacerbated if you suspect that something is wrong. Happy couples usually have little signs of affection they show unconscious against each other during the day. For example, pick one on the cheek, using loving words like "honey" spicy whole conversation, or affectionate pats, hand in hand, and other small signs of affection may be missing. If this is true, be careful. It does not necessarily mean an affair is happening, but it may mean that you should work on your relationship to bring those little touches back so you do not start.
If you see these signs of a cheating boyfriend, the best thing to do is to find out if it actually happens and why, as soon as possible. If you want to save the relationship, the next step would be couples counseling. Moreover, if she's cheating on you because you have taken the relationship for granted, you have cheated on her, or another behavior directly related to you, realize that you are responsible for cheating, too. And of course if you are a good and loyal guy who has not done any of these things, the responsibility rests with her. Nevertheless, you still need help as a couple if you want to save the relationship. That does not mean it can be saved, but you can certainly try if your boyfriend is interested.
That said, if she has cheated on you just because she thinks she can and that you will put up with it, it really is time to move on. Nobody deserves to have a partner who's cheating on him or her. You deserve better, and the best way to tell her, then giving her the boot.
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