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26 May 2010

Five Signs That your Husband is Committing Adultery

Nothing is as devastating to a woman who realizes that her husband has been unfaithful. For most women it comes as a bitter and unexpected shock. If you feel that your marriage is built on a foundation of honesty and that your promises are unbreakable, it's almost unbearable to consider that your husband has been intimate with another woman. Most women have a deep sense of intuition when it comes to their spouse, and can automatically recognize small clues that something may be wrong.

There can be many signs that your husband is unfaithful. While some are very obvious, others are more subtle. It is important for a woman who suspects that there may be a third party involved in her relationship to recognize the signs of infidelity, and then take the steps she feels are necessary to either rebuild the broken trust or terminate the marriage.

There are five signs your man is amazing that every woman simply must never ignore. It is important to remember that no noticeable change in your husband's behavior or behavior may mean he seeks out companionship elsewhere.

The first sign that many women notice is that their husband suddenly stops wearing his wedding band. He may suggest that he simply forgot to put it on, or he can say he misplaced it. If he has always worn it in the past, and that a sudden change, there is something else at work there.

Another of the obvious signs that your husband is unfaithful, his work schedule changes. If a man has always worked a 9-to-five days, and now says he must work late often, it's not a good sign. A man who is being unfaithful, may also be out of the blue are required to attend out of town conferences. Unless he is the recipient of a new position at work, there is probably an engaged woman.

Hide a credit card or checking account is another clue that an affair can take place. Many couples combine their financial resources and have joint accounts. If you notice an unfamiliar credit card in your husband's wallet, it is cause for suspicion. Most women who have always been forthcoming about money, and suddenly want their own account or card, can keep secrets.

The fourth sign that your husband is unfaithful is a little harder to detect. If your husband takes the family car to work, take note if he suddenly decides to clean it. Many men who have an affair will take their lady out for dates in the family car. If your husband cleans the car and removes all toys, books, lipsticks or make-up belonging to your or your children, there is an unspoken signal that he does not want anyone to know that he has a family.

The final and often most telling signs that your husband is not faithful will be that he is less talkative and seems lost in thought. Many men feel a strong sense of guilt when they have walked outside the marriage for intimacy. Although you can ask him what's on his mind, not be surprised if he says it is nothing.

It is a tough pill to swallow when you recognize the signs that your husband is unfaithful. As difficult as it is though, it is important to get to the bottom of the case to confirm your suspicions. Once you've done this, you will be ready to take a decision on what is best for you.

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