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24 February 2010

What To Do When You Feel Stuck In A Life You Don't Love

When you read the title of this article, you immediately think, "That's me?" Does your life feel like you have two legs submerged in a pit of quicksand and the more you push and pull and attempt to "get out," the more submerged you get and the more tired you feel?

You are not alone. Indeed, the next thing we tell you may sound less than inspiring. But read on, you will soon find the most challenging truths are actually the best opportunities for amazing pleasure.

The truth is that humans are destined to feel settled at different times in their lives. There is no way to avoid it, and no way to ignore it. Feeling stuck is an absolute given condition of human beings.

Then you ask: "Why is there a particular stack?" It is because people are always growing, always changing and evolving all the time. There is never a moment when your body, mind or spirit stops recreate itself. People have always wanted (to something) - though it's simply a puff of air. When you reach a goal you have strived towards for years, that goal ceases to be a goal at the moment it is reached. And just can not get rid of bad thoughts and bad habits, you replace them with better ideas or better behavior - what you want always to be replaced by whatever you want next. This does not mean you are not satisfied with a moment where you are. But, your mind seeks expansion. There is only so long that people can be happy with where they were before the new would pop into their heads. HOPES is evolving in the universe and the human spirit.

Another thing to note is that you have multiple areas of your life is happening simultaneously. We call them the Nine Environments of Holistic Living. In each of these environments, you have different goals and different intentions. You may be focused heavily on one or two areas and, after achieving great things in these areas, "suddenly" become aware of another area that is missing somehow. You are now focusing on that neglected area. No matter how happy you are in the other areas, the neglected area, you're now focused on, feels stagnate and stuck. For example, as a person acquires a long-worked goals in his career may then shift its focus on relationships and feel trapped in a bad relationship or stuck in not having a relationship. It does not take away from her career achievements, but the feeling is still there, because the focus has shifted.

The feeling of being stuck is simply you telling yourself that there is more you want in a particular area or areas. The frustration of being stuck, and what can cause negative feelings about it, because often when you are not sure how to make the changes you want to get wrong. Thus the stack can create panic inside of you that the situation will never change. To what extent you feel it stuck-ness and how quickly you respond to this feeling often determines how they stack affects you.

Firstly, we consider it useful to define what is stabbed actually means. Be locked, may not mean what you think it means there may be what makes being stuck feel so hopeless and frustrating. Be locked is not a destination. It is not a life sentence. It is also not define who you are, wherever you are at any given time. Be locked is just a notification, a sign, if you will, that it is time to start doing something new and different happen in your life. When you feel trapped, it is simply another part of you tapping you on the proverbial shoulder saying, "Hey, I'm no longer happy with where I am or what I have in a particular area and I need something else. "

Like if you've ever driven a car and you stop at a red light. When the light turns green, it is your characters to get started. Be locked is a simply a green light-a sign saying it is time to get started. The key is knowing how to get started. It is here, being stuck can feel like a horrible condition, a limiting factor and a trap. If you do not know that pressing the accelerator you get moving in your car, you can not move. If your car is in the wrong gear, you can not move. And if you resist that light is green, you can not move. If you resist that you feel trapped (which means you are not happy feelings, but instead gets caught in the feeling of being trapped and hampered), you actually put your focus to be trapped, instead of your focus on the sign to get started. If you embrace that the sign is there, then you have the freedom to explore how to get started. Once you have the freedom to explore, you can usually create change rather quickly.

This may sound a bit confusing, so let us be as clear as possible, as this is a critical piece for allowing yourself to get wrong. By recognizing that you are somewhere you do not want to be, but does not delve into the emotions of being there, you free up your energy to focus on where you want to be. You release your energy to focus on what you want, not what you want. This is the basis for the Law of Attraction, which says that you focus your energy on is what you attract you-wanted or unwanted. To learn to linger as a positive sign that you want more, opens you up to ask how to get it, instead of delving into the emotions of being where you do not want to be, and for fear you will always be there.

No matter what question you ask yourself, you will get a response. If you ask yourself-Why am I standing here? What have I done to deserve this? Why is it always happening to me? I will be here forever? "You will get a response. And, most likely you will get an answer that will not help you push the accelerator pedal or figuring out you're in the wrong gear. If you ask empowering questions-What do I do that I do not? How can I get it? What have I done and what can I do differently?-You begin to focus on answers that will drive you forward.

Getting wrong can be an easy and seamless process. The key is to use the right tools to help you. Use of tools-questions, exercises, programs, processes, people, etc.-is the number one way to shift your focus. Tools are how humans create in the universe. Learning and use of tools of notes and instruments are what allow you to make music. Learning and using hammers, nails and technique is what allows you to construct buildings. Learning and use of alphabet, grammar and paper or computers is what enables you to write novels and poetry. Getting wrong, change your life, to manifest your desires is done by learning and using the natural tools to create Law of Attraction, the Nine Environments of Holistic Living, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, the process of Deliberate Creation, Prosperity Process, Power of Intention, the universal laws, Law of Attraction Coaches, Messages from Abraham or Seth, etc.

No one needs to be stabbed. No one needs to live a life they do not love. It's simply recognize the signs that it is time to make a change. Then evaluate which tools will help make that change, and begin the process. Embrace the feeling of being trapped, so you can get started, visit the tools you need and start today.

Here is your freedom!

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