Their casual relationship can work as a committed one as long as you're both ready. Many people find that their casual relationship work well, because they both come from difficult break ups. The worst thing you can do is to plan your future with a person who is not quite gotten over breaking up, so before you make any plans to be part of a committed relationship, once relaxed, so be sure than none of you are simply looking for a rebound relationship.
Not only do you need to ensure that none of you just may rise again, make sure that both of you want to be in a relationship. Many people feel rushed into relationships, and it really does not bode well for the relationship in the future. Be sure that you are both ready to make that leap, and that the decision to become involved in each other is something that you're both ready.
Do not commit just because it would be more convenient. If things have worked in a relaxed way, do not change just because you feel it would be more convenient or easier to explain to other people. Instead, do what works for you two. If you like the way things are and you do not want to commit, why feel compelled to do so?
Make changes slowly. Just because you're bound does not mean that you have to move together or suddenly start doing it all together. The first thing is to change the nature of your relationship, the possibility of anything else to be followed in a natural pace. When you take it slowly, you will discover that the relationship evolves into a comfortable pace for all who will give you a better chance of being successful.
Many people assume that a casual relationship can not be committed and work, but it can! You may have to come up with something creative to tell friends when they ask how you met, or not to disclose the whole truth, because it can be quite shocking! If you are both ready, why not commit, since you already know you are working in the bedroom?
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