Getting Them Back After a Break Up

Sometimes people grow apart in a relationship and they split up, not because they do not love each other, but because they just do not know how to make it work at that time. If you are not quite ready to let go yet, you can try to get the person you love back. You should go in knowing that you have at best a 50% chance of getting them back in your life, but if you feel strongly about them and you have no reason to believe that the feelings are reciprocated, can 'll be able to do the work. You must put your time and energy into the process of getting someone back if you want a chance, but generally it is worth the time and energy!

First things first, let your ex know how you feel. Tell them that you do not want to be apart and you want to try it again and this time you want to do it right. If you get no resistance chances are that they feel the same way and at this point you should begin to show the person you love them. There are some simple ways to do this that will really make a lasting impression on the person you are trying to get back. Some good ways to show your love and affection when you try to get them back include but are not limited to:

1. Send them love letters.

2. Send them small gifts.

3. Leave them notes on their car at their door, or under their pillow.

4. Bring them lunch and dinner.

5. Offer to give them a massage when they have had a long day.

6. Take them out to dinner.

7. Prepare a candlelit dinner for them.

8. Be a friend and really listen to what they have to say.

9. Say how you feel and not hold back.

10. Let them know through written and spoken word that you love them.

These are some very simple ways to let someone know you love them, and you want them back. This is just one small thing you can do every day to let someone know that you are the most important thing for them, and even though you have broken up that you still have a chance to do things right.

Of course there is a chance that all these efforts to your ex will not ever actually take you back. You have to know going in that all of your efforts may be something in the end, but it's worth it if you really love that person and you will have a chance to get them back in your life. Faith goes to show them how much they think will give you another chance, but also keep it on the back of your mind that ultimately you can not work out now or in the future. All you can do is put your heart in time to woo them back into your life.