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27 December 2009

How to Keep Your Husband or Wife Happy

There are things we all do in our relationships, we do not even think about. If you think about every little thing that you do, you may find that your relationship is as enjoyable, if not more, than it was in the beginning. There are some simple things you can do to keep your husband or wife happy that there really is simple if you pay attention.

1. Do not forget your manners. The longer we are in a relationship less polite we are, because we just pleasant. Although it is easier to just say what you mean when you think it is important in a relationship to be sure that you always use your manners. Please, thank you and excuse me never ends in a relationship.

2. Let them have time with their friends. If you are in a relationship many people want to be the center of their life mate. Although it is nice to think that you are the reason for everything they do are you had to give them a bit of free rein, allowing them to enjoy themselves and part time with their friends.

3. Understand that sometimes comes up at work. If you blow up each time they are late for work, you are not very supportive or understanding of their work. Do everything you can continue to be positive about their work plan, even when it is hard.

4. Make sure you are honest with them. Sometimes being honest hurts, especially if you have run up phone bills, or spent more than you should have, but to be honest will keep your husband or wife much happier in the long run.

5. Pride in your appearance. Many people have a tendency to let themselves go as they get comfortable in a relationship, but when you continue to be proud of your appearance you show your spouse that you appreciate what they think and what they think about you. This does not mean that you must always be the weight you were when you met, but it means that you must continue to make yourself look good, if for no other reason than for your spouse.

These are simple ways that will help you keep your husband or your wife happy. Many times we get comfortable in relationships, and the result is that we get complacent. You must continue to treat your spouse as you did when you first met, and you appreciated their presence in your life and you want them to remain in your life. If you do this, you will discover that a happy marriage is much easier to achieve and maintain.

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