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27 December 2009

How to End a Relationship in No Time

Are you one of those people who are in and out of relationships all the time, and you can not figure out why? You can always get "it's not you it's me" excuse when breaking up, but if you constantly let easy chances are you're doing some things that nobody likes. There are certain things in a relationship that people just do not like, and the disappointment is definitely one of those things. Disappointment comes in many forms and when you're constantly letting a person into a relationship just will not work. The longer you know someone the more you learn about them, and often people are just disappointed in the character of another person, and that it have the relationship to come to an end.

A sign error that a lot of people find disappointing is when the person they are dating is not nice to other people. We generally like to spend time with someone who is nice for us, but apart from that we want to be with someone who is nice to other people too. If you are not very nice to the people around you it is a reflection of your partner as well, and anyone who cares about their friends and family and the world as a whole does not want to be with someone who is not nice. If you do not want to get dumped for being a disappointment, going out of your way to be nice to the people around you.

Do not forget things. Women especially, are disappointed when their boyfriend or husband is always forgetting stuff. We all forget things from time to time, but if you always forget things that are important to your mate, they will feel disappointed and if you do not really have any interest or respect for who they are or what they do. This is one of the quickest ways to get dumped.

We all want a person who has strong values and morals, if you do not, you will let the person you are dating or married off. Make sure you know what your values and morals are, and you use them in your everyday life. This may seem like something very simple, but most of us have been raised to live a life with values and morals, and so it is far more attractive in other people too.

Do not be a bum. If you have no motivation or no hope in life, you need to be honest about this up front. Most people who have goals and ambitions will be with someone who understands this and wants the same things from life. If you do not have any of that the person you are with, will always be betrayed. Be honest about who you are and where you see yourself going in life from the beginning so they can not be disappointed later when they realize you are not so oriented goals, as they are.

Do not forget about romance. As a relationship ages us often forget to be as romantic as we ought to show the person we are with that they are special to us. Many people, especially women, get really hurt and disappointed when the man in their life stops being romantic. Makes romance a part of your daily life by doing small things, let your partner know that you love.

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