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27 December 2009

How to Know it’s Time to Break Up

Making the decision to break up with someone is never easy, but it can be made even more difficult if both of you have tried to postpone the inevitable. When you know that you have to break up with someone even though you know it is for the better, you go through a kind of grief, and chances are both of you is to ignore the reality of what will happen. Are you still wondering if now is the right time? If yes, below you will find 5 characters, valid for all links which are dead in the water and need to be stopped sooner rather than later.

1. If you do not spend time together, why are you living? Relationship is that there rarely tended to, and it can not be seen more clearly than when people stop spending time together. If you are both to avoid being together, why not just make your break up official?

2. You're not talking about being together anymore. Couples who have invested and want to stay in their relationships spend a lot of time talking about what they will do in the future. It may be small things, like where you want to go, what to do, etc., but it is important for future planning that is missing in a relationship that should cease to be.

3. Fighting is the rule rather than the exception. Because you are both not sure how to end the relationship, you are both safe picking fights, trying to get other people to do the dirty work. Fighting is not healthy for a relationship or for the individual, so if you are fighting non-stop just call it quits.

4. You are interested in other people. If you are so disconnected that you have a genuine interest in being with other people, you should just break it down. If you cut off the relationship now, you will be able to wipe the slate clean and date other people and find something and someone that will make you happy!

5. You do not touch each other anymore. People who really is off not touching anymore and the body language, who did not warm or welcoming. When you do not touch, even to hug and kiss hello and goodbye, it's usually just a sign that the relationship really is dead and it would be appropriate to end it now.

These are some pretty clear signs that it is time to end the relationship. You're the only person who can decide if now is the right time to stop it, but generally, when such symptoms exist for a while, it is not a good thing. You do not have to stay in a relationship, you are not satisfied with, so be honest with yourself and your partner.

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