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27 December 2009

Managing Jealousy in Your Relationship

Jealousy is a very real human emotions. If we care about someone, and we want them to worry about us and give us their attention, jealousy is normal that a certain degree. Although this is true, it is very easy for jealousy to get out of control, which may be detrimental to a relationship if you are not careful. Indeed, jealousy is the root of a lot of broken marriages and relationships. What aos important to keep your jealousy in check, if you want a relationship to last.

Handle your jealousy you have to trust your partner. If you do not, AOT trust your partner, you will find that you constantly compare yourself with other people in their lives, and if they show the slightest interest in anyone else, you may find yourself lost with jealousy. Work to build a relationship built on trust and love, so you can be assured that you will not be replaced. When you don, AOT, the constant fear of being replaced, your jealousy will suddenly fall apace.

Work on yourself. Be so sure of yourself as possible and make sure that you love yourself, who you are. If you trust your partner to tell you that you are okay and that you look good and are a good person, you're probably very insecure. Insecure people get jealous very easily, because they always feel like someone is going to take their place or be better than them. How many times have you thought that your spouse was interested in a second, and the result was that you went fishing for compliments and validating them? If you are sure of yourself, All be much less jealous because you All have faith that you're good enough, and probably in every way to your mate.

When you feel to get jealous, stop and analyze the situation. Do you really have a reason to be jealous? Or are you just being too sensitive or alarming for no reason. Chances are there are not any real reasons why you feel jealous, and if they are very small and it is not something that you should act on.

Understand that everyone feels jealous or envious every once in a while. Your companion can use a lot of time with someone at work, and you can be jealous of the time they spend together, but it's not a jealousy, which must be followed. You just do it most of the time that you two have together to make it a more manageable situation. Jealousy is a natural and normal human emotion, what aos what you do with the emotions that can take it overboard and it can ruin your relationship.

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