Making Threesome’s Work

The threesome are as old as time itself, and every day there are few who Biting the Bullet "and try it out for themselves. There are a lot of horror stories out there about what a threesome would do to your relationship. While some people have a very negative experience, others believe that if they just have some basic rules that a triangle can be a very pleasant experience once or repeatedly. There are some basic rules that can help you get started talking about what you are both comfortable with and what direction you want the trio to take you.

1. Regulate the time. Sit down and really talk about what you are both comfortable with when it comes to the threesome. Some people say no penetration, others say no oral sex, and yet others say no kissing. You have to define for and with each other, what the limitations are. It is important that you talk about this before hand so you know where you both stand so that lessons can be fun instead of hurtful.

2. Take your time. Take your time choosing the right person. Many people make the mistake of choosing the first available person or a person that they are close to just because it's convenient. Take your time and give some serious thought about who you choose to have a triangle with, and what possible problems that may ensue afterwards.

3. Give as much as you want to get. Many people get very selfish when it comes to having a triangle. If you just sit back and expect you to be happy without giving anything back, chances are you will end up a spectator in its entirety. Give as well as you want to get!

4. Do not rush through the process. If you rush through the process of having a triangle it will be over before you know it. Instead, take your time, enjoy foreplay and build up, because when it's over, it's over! Many people are too tense, and the result is that they have themselves so much as they could have.

5. Be safe and make a clean break. Of course, when you have a threesome, you must be sure you are as safe as possible from a sexually transmitted disease and pregnancy perspective. This should be your highest priority, whether you have been together in the past before, or not. You must also abide by the rules and make a clean break when the threesome is over, so you keep those boundaries in place from start to finish. Triangles is only fun if you keep your boundaries in place and protect yourself throughout the process!