The bottom line is that you need to give gifts that you know that the person will like, but not too deep or suggesting anything more than where you are right now. While many people may argue it is also a good idea not to spend too much money on a gift if the relationship is new, as this indicates to be very serious and can make another uncomfortable.
There are some fairly benign yet meaningful gifts that will allow you to make a nice gift that the person will appreciate without spending too much or too little. Some good gift ideas for a budding relationship can be:
1. CD's
2. Movies
3. Favorite TV series on DVD
4. Collectibles that you know they enjoy
5. Tickets for a spa
6. Tickets to a concert
7. Take them out for a nice dinner and dance
8. Create coupons for "favors"
9. Buy them some clothes, you know they will
10. A bottle of their favorite wine or spirits
As you can see, you can create truly meaningful gifts that do not cost too much and will allow you to give a gift that does not make the person you're dating the recent offensive. Do not assume that these are the only gift you can get into a new and budding relationship, you just need to keep things in that direction. None of these gifts is every indication or too deep, but they show that you listen to what the person says, you know what they like and that you spent time getting a gift that was special to them.
Giving gifts should be fun, and it should not be something you stress too much. You just need to listen to what they say, are aware of what they want and then buy accordingly. Generally you should keep the cost under $ 50 for that first holiday gift. If you're still together during the holiday season next year, it is when you can buy more intense or suggestive gifts ... but gives it time!
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