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27 December 2009

Make Sex Great Again

If you've been in a relationship for a while, your sex life may have started fantastic, but over time you might have found that things are a little dull and you just do not look forward to having sex the way you are accustomed to. You may find that you are interested in other people because you want to start a new and great sex you had when you first met. You may be surprised to learn that virtually all children can begin to have great sex again. The process is actually quite simple and can work for you if you are dedicated to renew your fantastic sex life.

1. Not believing that you can not get in the mood. Many people decide that they want sex to be aroused, but often this is not true. If you've been in a relationship for awhile you can not always wait until the desire strikes to have sex, at least not if you want to have sex often and have good sex. Instead of waiting for the desire to have sex in order to find you, give yourself a chance. Sometimes you do not want to have sex, but if you allow yourself, you are awakened and suddenly you feel like. It can go both ways, so allow yourself to explore the possibility of resuming, although sex was not your idea.

2. Consider exploring your fantasies. If things have been boring, it's probably because you have fallen into a sexual routine or rut. One thing you can do to help you get out of the track that you are in and begin to have much sex is to explore your fantasies together. Many people are together or married for years, without really share their fantasies with each other. Take time to share your fantasies with each other and then also promise to help each other to fulfill your fantasies. You may find that when you do this, you are able to breathe new life into what happens in the bedroom, renew your desire and attraction to each other again.

3. Experiment. If you allow yourself to experiment a little more, you find that you can have great sex again. You can not just experiment with new positions, but also role-play, sex toys and lubricants. Just to introduce a new element to your sex life can mean the difference between being bored for not wanting to have sex to be as excited about your sex life as you were when you started having sex. Try new things, introduce them one at a time and enjoy a whole new dynamic to your life in between the sheets!

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