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27 December 2009

Mistakes Many of Us Make That Are Keeping Us from Having Amazing Sex

If you have sex, but you always wish you could have more sex, or just have better sex, you can! Even if you have a fantastic sex life it can always be better! How? By eliminating some of the things we all do when it comes to sex. When you stop making the same mistakes, you will find that a whole new world of sex and sexuality opens up to you, does it better than ever before.

1. You rush sex. Often we are so excited to have sex that we rush through it. Why are we busy when it is something we look forward to so much? Instead of making a sexual experience a race from start to finish, slow it down. Begin to explore your partner's body in a new way, find what they like, what you want, and bring a newly back into sex that you have not had in a long time. Your sex life will be 100% better if you just slow things down a bit.

2. The same routine. Is your sex routine just a bit too predictable? Have both you and your spouse know when or where you want to have sex every time? This can make sex work more as a part of the plan or just something you do instead of something that should be enjoyed and celebrated. Break out of your routine and get spontaneous! This will make great sex mind blowing sex!

3. Breezing of foreplay. When you are comfortable in your relationship foreplay may seem like a waste. Although you might not want a lengthy foreplay session every time, you should stop and smell the roses every once in a while. It is structured as occurs during foreplay that makes great sex so much. So stop just breezing by all the fun foreplay from the past and do it! You'll be so glad you did!

4. One of you always takes the first step. If you always expect that someone will do the first step, than things just a little too predictable, and a person can always wait for the others. Allow people to make that first step, in fact insist on it. When you both are able to initiate sex, you will be free to explore a new aspect of your sexual life together, making it hotter than ever.

5. Television viewing before sex. Did you go into the bedroom at night and automatically turn on the television and then have sex when you are done watching? Instead of leaving you tired and entertained while watching television, why not turn off the TV and have sex first and then if you are still looking for a little entertainment, you can turn it on after some pillow talk!

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